Being a "good parent" means different things to different people, but it's the most important job you get to do-- and only once chance per child to do your best!
The new American culture of youth disrespect, technology overuse, and conflicting advice about what to tolerate is incredibly frustrating for most parents!! You are NOT alone in following your instinct that there MUST be a better way.
As children become older it becomes painfully clear the gradual increase of time in front of screens that once seemed harmless is causing problematic behavior changes and stealing time away from important coming of age activities adolescents should be enjoying with their family and peers, not hiding away in their rooms.
Behavior problems and declining grades are just the tip of the iceberg of further social emotional and developmental problems that arise if left unchecked.
It's NOT too late to make change, you can reclaim your family bonds.
WE CAN HELP. YOU DESERVE TO FEEL LIKE A GREAT PARENT.